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Our Blessed Mother: An Anchor Throughout Generations

5/23/2024

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by Sarah Chivers
Standing at the edge of the rectory yard on the St. Francis of Assisi campus is a beautiful, weathered statue of our Blessed Mother. Though one may pass by this statue on the way into Mass without a second thought, her storied history is one that everyone should know as she has been a part of Fr. Brian Phelp's family for over forty years.

This Blessed Mother originally graced the yard of Fr. Brian's grandmother. She heard many prayers for healing and for family over the years. Every time that she would move, she ensured that she could see Mother Mary from the window in her home. Towards the end of her life, Fr. Brian's grandmother would pray three rosaries a day, looking out at Mary from her chair inside.

When his grandmother passed away, Mary found a new home at the childhood home of Fr. Brian. Years later when his parents decided to move, they drove Mary to Fr. Brian at St. Francis where he was serving his first assignment as pastor. 

After prayerful consideration of where to place this sentimental representation of our Blessed Mother, Fr. Brian knew he had to place her where she could look out for all who entered into Mass. Parishioners will often leave flowers before her. 

Throughout Covid, Mary became an anchor for Fr. Brian, and while she served him as an anchor spiritually, he also noted that she was a physical anchor on the St. Francis of Assisi grounds. Throughout the years that Mary has resided at St. Francis, she has weathered many storms. Fr. Brian recalled in his youth that the statue had a tendency of tipping over in the wind and rain, but has noted in the past few years that even through bad storms and heavy rains, Mary has not moved an inch or fallen over. It was a sense of security that the Blessed Mother was always one to turn to.

​Over the years, the idea has been suggested to paint and refresh the weathered statue. At one point, Fr. Brian considered it, but even the artist after reviewing the statue said that it was too beautiful the way it is. It's weathered state illustrates just how many rosaries have been prayed before it and how Mother Mary hears them all.
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From the Pastor's Desk: Saints All Around Us

5/22/2024

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I remember the first time I went to a place that a true canonized saint walked in the United States.  At the end of my internship year, I went on a mission trip to Winnebago, NE to the reservation of the Winnebago Tribe.  There was a parish out there that had a mission that was started by St. Katherine Drexel.  She began the mission as part of her ministry to Native American and African Americans.  

She went to see Pope Leo XIII and told him of the plight of the peoples in the United States.  She asked who will you send to minister to these people.  Pope Leo XIII said why don’t you become a missionary.  Well, after much prayer she did. She formed the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament to minister to the the African American and Native American peoples.  

Today, there is a woman that was a FOCUS Missionary whose cause is up for sainthood.  Servant of God Michelle Duppong passed away on December 25, 2015 at the age of 31 from cancer when she was the Director of Adult Faith Formation for the diocese of Bismarck, ND.  She was a FOCUS Missionary for 6 years before her work for the diocese.

She was described as a young woman of great faith, compassion, prayer, and always walked with college students with great love.  She could walk with college students and speak with them in a very real way about their lives and faith.

After her death, “people have attributed miraculous healings and personal consolations to Duppong’s intercession, or have claimed to hear her voice giving them courage, her mother told OSV News. 

This shows us that saints are from all walks of life, and God is still inspiring us to holiness.  This past Sunday was Pentecost where we celebrated the descent of the Holy Spirit on the Apostles.  Today we still see the movement of the Holy Spirit in people like Michelle Duppong.  

How do we see the Holy Spirit moving in our family of parishes? How has the Holy Spirit moved in your life and and inspiring you to live your faith?  How has the Holy Spirit renewed your faith?  How has the Holy Spirit shown you how to help you to live a greater life of love and seek holiness?  Holiness is our participation with God by allowing God to guide us to be the people he created us to be.  

In Christ,
Fr. Brian
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From the Pastor's Desk: The Holy Face of Jesus

5/7/2024

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In high school we had to take one art class.  We could choose from theatre, art, or band.  Well I was horrible in all three of those, so I chose the lesser of three evils and chose art.  When we got there, we were told that the lowest grade anyone will ever get is an 85.   You can guess what my final grade was for the class, an 85.

One assignment we had to draw a self portrait of our face.  We had to look at ourselves in the mirror, and then then draw what we saw.  I did the best I could but at the end I got tired of looking at myself in the mirror.  The drawing got an 85, but it also helped me to appreciate my family.  I take after the Italian side of the family.  It made me think of my dad, my grandma, my uncles.  It also made me think of my grandfather whom I never met because he died right before I was born, and my middle name is named after him: William.

Just looking at my face made me think of all of that.  

This past Lent and Easter, the Holy Face of Jesus has been a place of prayer for me.  It is a devotion that many saints have cultivated, especially St. Therese of Lisieux.  Her name is St. Therese of the Holy Face of Jesus.  

What struck me was that the Holy Face of Jesus is always shown very serene, asleep in death before the resurrection.

This past year, though, there was another word that came to me in my prayer.  That word was calmness.  In the Holy Face of Jesus we see the calmness of Christ.  Jesus faced the agony and the terror of his passion and death.  Yet, we see him walk that path with great calmness.  He always had control over the situation and reminded Pilate that any power that seemed to be his, was given to him by God the Father. Jesus was in total control through his life, death, and resurrection.  

We too can lean on that calmness of Christ.  Really, calmness is a sign strength.  We do not need to face things with our own calmness and strength because we don't always have that in us, but that Jesus' calmness can permeate our lives.

It is very human of us to worry, be anxious or allow things around to rob us of our joy, peace, and grace.  What Christ shows us is that we can turn to him and he can calm those storms in our lives as he did in the Gospels.  He has total control and wants us to turn to him. 

Whenever we have a time of needing our Lord to calm the storms in our lives, he wants us to say a simple prayer of "Lord I give these things to you.  Show me the way to your peace and help me walk that path."

That is why he sent the Holy Spirit on Pentecost, so that we may always be connected to him through the Holy Spirit. We are given all of the gifts we need.  The Holy Spirit purifies our prayers, and the Holy Spirit guides us on the path to holiness. Let us take some time to look at the face of Jesus and sees the calmness of his face and know it in our own lives.

This image is a body of Jesus that was cast from the Shroud of Turin.  They were able to make this from a holographic image of the Shroud.  Just notice his face is not a face of terror or horror, but the face of calmness knowing that his mission is now complete.  He can send us the Holy Spirit to give us what we need. All we need to do is ask.

We also see his face here in the Eucharist.  We can sit in front of Him and we can see his loving, calm face.
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