"If early one morning you see a tight group of men praying together while you are picking up your carry out, look closely, they may just be TMIY parishioners from Our Lady of Light."

Chris Bramlage, a member of the That Man Is You group at Our Lady of Light, is always inspired by the number of men who meet bright and early on Saturday mornings for fellowship with other Catholic men and to grow in deeper understanding and appreciation of their Catholic faith. With over sixty men in attendance, it is clear that the Holy Spirit is stirring a desire to make godly men in our community.

"In the OLL TMIY program, I have found authentic Catholic fellowship. We openly share our troubles and victories over worldly things as we try to focus on the eternal. I have made some lasting friendships with men where I feel comfortable sharing anything with them. They listen, empathize and console," Chris explains.

One powerful thing about this community of men is their commitment to each other. "They push me to confession, conversion and toward Christ," Chris says. Holding each other accountable in their Catholic faith is a powerful part of their mission - in a world where it is difficult to find connection, they stand beside each other and help each other get to Heaven.

​Community is vital to a strong Catholic faith. We are not meant to live this life alone: God created us to be a people who need one another. As it says in the book of Proverbs, “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another” (27:17).

One article from Ascension Press said it well in regards to how the world so largely functions online today:

"Rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide have all been rising over the past 20 years. It’s no wonder people are afraid. They have few real friends and are being isolated further and further from reality and the ability to engage in lasting, fruitful relationships. Yet, “perfect love casts out fear” (1 John 4:18). We who live in an authentic Catholic community are able to live in faith, hope, and love. It is only through this exchange with others man develops his potential and thus responds to his vocation (CCC 1879)." (The Power of Catholic Community by Ryan Welch)

We at Our Lady of Light recognize the importance of community with one another. With various groups for all adults, for men and women, and even for those in specific stages of life, our community groups are vital to the strength of our community. We hope that you will find a community that helps you search more deeply for God in your life, and encourages you to support your brothers and sisters in Christ in their faith journey as well.

For more information about That Man Is You, as well as our other men's and community groups for Our Lady of Light, please visit www.olldayton.org/communities

“Speak less to Augustine about God and more to God about Augustine.” -St. Ambrose to St. Monica

Today we celebrate the feast of St. Monica, mother of St. Augustine of Hippo.

St. Monica's story is one that takes many twists and turns. Often we look at the lives of the saints and feel like sainthood is unattainable. But the saints, while very holy people, weren't perfect and didn't have perfect lives. They had their own vices and their own obstacles in life. It was how they trusted in God and asked Him for strength during these difficulties that made them qualified for sainthood. Once they found their way to God, they did not turn back.

St. Monica's biggest trial is one that perhaps a number of us relate to. While he is now renowned as a doctor of the Church due to his writings that laid the foundation for modern thoughts on Christianity, St. Monica's son Augustine turned away from the Catholic Church for a good portion of his life, nearly seventeen years. Raised in the Catholic faith, St. Augustine fell into a life of sin and darkness. Sins of impurity and pride plagued his mind and turned his heart from Jesus. He no longer believed in God and His Truth. 

Initially, St. Monica cast Augustine from her home. His new ideas of religion and the afterlife seemingly startled her - this was not the same boy that she had raised to know the goodness of God. After a period of time with the two estranged, St. Monica had a vision. She was to reconcile with her son. She visited their local bishop in tears, asking how she could help her son. The bishop comforted her saying, "The child of those tears shall never perish."

It is important to note that St. Monica fought to have her children baptized. Her husband was a Roman pagan and uninterested in religion - he did not give permission for Augustine to be baptized until he had fallen significantly ill as a child. After meeting with the bishop, St. Monica returned to her fight to save her child from sin. She committed to a regular regimen of intense prayer  and fasting for her son. When Augustine left for school, St. Monica went with him. There, she met St. Ambrose, the bishop of Milan, who assisted in leading Augustine back to the faith. 

How many of us have witnessed similar situations in our lives? We raise our children to know our loving and forgiving God, only for the seductions of the world around us to distract them and draw them away from Him. They look for something to give them happiness, but true happiness is found in our Father. 

As St. Ambrose said to St. Monica upon learning about St. Augustine's situation, "Speak less to Augustine about God and more to God about Augustine.” While we may find the urge to constantly remind our children who have fallen away that God is there, it is ultimately their choice. St. Monica witnessed her son live a precarious life with parties, stealing, lovers, even a child born of wedlock. But she did not pressure him or force him to live a certain way. She simply prayed for him to find his way back to God. To realize that God was the only answer to filling a hole he was anxiously trying to fill.

If you have a child who has fallen away from God (a relative, friend, etc.), we invite you to join us in this prayer for intercession from St. Monica. We are praying for all those who have fallen away from His love.

St. Monica, I need your prayers. You know exactly how I’m feeling because you once felt it yourself. I’m hurting, hopeless, and in despair. I desperately want my child to return to Christ in his Church but I can’t do it alone. I need God’s help. Please join me in begging the Lord’s powerful grace to flow into my child’s life. Ask the Lord Jesus to soften his heart, prepare a path for his conversion, and activate the Holy Spirit in his life. Amen.

{Prayer from Word on Fire}

By Incarnation School Principal Leah Coghlan, Vice Principal Amanda Ooten and Assistant Principal Kristi Erickson

Back to school is such an exciting and busy time of year for everyone! The promise of a fresh start, new friends and faces, and the anticipation of the unknown waits for us. But is it unknown?

We know God is there for us in any season of our life, even the busy ones. When we become overwhelmed or anxious, we are always invited to turn to prayer and find our silence and peace with God. At school, we invite our staff and students to take some moments in the morning, afternoon, and before we nourish our bodies to pray together. These moments might be small, but they are consistently beautiful as students stop in their classrooms, hallways, wherever they may be to take that moment with God.

This school year kicks off with a new goal for our school community.  We are intentionally focusing more and more on our mission to ‘walk in the footsteps of Jesus’.  We will be launching a new theme to Live Like Jesus, Love Like Jesus, Act Like Jesus. This will be integrated throughout the classrooms, academics, expectations, and most importantly prayer.

As you and your family begin another busy season, remember to slow down and find that prayer time together. We also invite families to attend our all-school Mass on Friday mornings. Seeing our students and teachers pray and worship together is the highlight of our week!

As always, the school families and Our Lady of Light parishioners are in our prayers. Thank you for keeping the students and staff in yours!

Written by Christen Aquino

“Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest.” // Matthew 11: 28

I don’t know about you, but these words resonate within my heart.  In the fast-paced world we live in, my soul desires to find a deep, fulfilling, abiding rest.  Too often though, this idea feels like wishful thinking since there are a million things to get done, trips to be traveled, assignments due, meetings to be had, events to be run, and more; and it seems like the time to get it all done in is getting less and less.  Perhaps this is why Jesus’ words are more important today than ever before: “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest.”  He knows just how whirlwind our lives are, and He is offering us a solution: that we would come to Him for an abiding peace and rest that only He can give.   
 
In my years of experience, youth ministry summers look like the total opposite of rest.  For example, this summer included two conferences, a mission trip, one weeklong camp hosted at Our Lady of Light and two weeklong camps hosted by LifeTeen in Georgia.
 
And yet, during all these conferences and camps, I often find more rest than I do during the rest of the year, because every day is centered around being with Jesus.  Daily Mass, praise and worship, adoration, opportunities for confession, talks and messages focused on growing in the spiritual life, small group conversation, and prayer.  All the chaos of life is stripped away, and I am able to focus on Jesus, present in the Sacraments, the Word, and in the community made up of our teens, our core team, and other ministers.
 
This summer Life Teen introduced our theme for the year: SANCTUARY.  While we’ve looked at this word and its meaning from various angles, the one that continues to most resonate with me, and our teens, is the idea of rest – rest from the world, from anxieties, from social media, from the demands we place on ourselves, etc.  The Eucharistic Jesus resides in the Tabernacle in the Sanctuary of our Churches and He dwells in the inner sanctuary of our hearts, if only we take the time to seek Him out and put Him first. 
 
I will always have a million excuses, but every day Jesus extends the invitation to come to Him so that He can give me the rest that He alone can give.  The question is, will I take the time to do so?
 
Challenge: Start small.  Set aside 5 minutes a day to encounter Jesus in the inner sanctuary of your heart.  Find a quiet place you will pray every day.  Read a passage from Scripture, listen to a worship song, or reading a writing from a saint and reflect on the words, asking Jesus how you can internalize them and make them present in your life.  The Hallow App has a great guided 5 minute meditation on Scripture or you can use the Sanctuary 30-Day Challenge.

Have you ever noticed how delicately our priests remove the Blessed Sacrament from the monstrance? It's quite a beautiful ceremony to end each Adoration, by returning Jesus in the consecrated host to the tabernacle, where all can continue their praise for the one who laid down His life for us.

We as Catholics believe that Jesus is truly present before us in the Eucharist. Jesus himself said to the apostles, ""I am the living bread that came down from heaven; if anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever; … he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life and … abides in me, and I in him.” We do not simply remember the Last Supper at Mass, we are reliving it. We take an active part in receiving the true Body and Blood of Jesus. We say Amen, yes, to receiving Him.

While it may sometimes feel like we are just going through the motions at Mass, it is something new every time. We are older, we are different than we were the week prior. We reconfirm our belief and our stance as missionary disciples when we leave the church building and go out into the world. To quote the Catechism: "The Eucharist is 'the source and summit of the Christian life'" (CCC 1324). Life begins with the Eucharist, and it continues with us.

This is why our priests are so gentle while removing the Blessed Sacrament from the monstrance. How amazing it must be to hold Jesus in the Eucharist in their very hands. To cradle Him as they humbly carry Him back to the tabernacle.

Although, that's what it is to receive the Eucharist during Communion each time we go to Mass... isn't it? Whether we receive through our hands or on the tongue, we consume Jesus and in turn are living tabernacles. Jesus is alive within us. St. Pope John Paul II once said, "From the Eucharist comes strength to live the Christian life and zeal to share that life with others." How do we reflect God's love and mercy to those around us after we receive the Eucharist? How can we make a conscious effort to make God a focal point in our lives and share Him with others?

Written by Caroline Doorley

Hey there, Our Lady of Light Family,

This summer I had the pleasure to be the youth ministry intern for our family of parishes. It has been an amazing opportunity for me to serve Our Lady of Light in a new and different way.

At the beginning of the summer, I was lucky enough to travel to Arizona for the Catholic Youth Ministry Conference hosted by Life Teen. The Arizona trip not only offered spiritual refreshment, but also an opportunity for  professional development and community building within the Our Lady of Light youth ministry team. The most impactful part of the CYMC conference was the idea that your effectiveness in ministry is directly related to your ability to be uncomfortable — this does not just apply to those of us getting paid to work in ministry. Ministry is part of our faith, and it is not an easy task. Your ability to be uncomfortable will help you exceed in this task to ministry to those who haven’t experienced the real presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist. This idea was something that I kept at the forefront of my mind throughout the summer.

Toward the middle of the summer, I gained experience with events and programming within our parish. I assisted the inaugural Into the Deep week for our Edge and Life Teen programs. We guided teens through the different historical periods in which the Bible took place by praying, playing, and eating our way through the Bible. Another event that I was a part of was Americana Fest. This opportunity not only provided an amazing learning experience on how to evangelize to those parking or walking by on our campus, but also how to assist managing a team of volunteers.  This event wasn’t specifically under the “Youth Ministry Umbrella,” but it really showed me that our parish staff do more than we could ever imagine. As a youth ministry intern, I am not just ministering to our youth, but also to their parents and anyone that they interact with.

At the end of the summer, I had the opportunity to travel with our middle schoolers down to Georgia for Camp Hidden Lake. This was such a fulfilling experience watching our teens grow closer to the Lord and begin to understand the upcoming theme for this school year: Sanctuary. It is truly inspiring to watch a group of teens not only grow closer with our Lord, but also with each other and with all the adult leaders on the trip. My favorite experience with our teens at camp was their willingness to support each other. Whether they were supporting a teen that was nervous to take part in a lake day activity, messy games, or after a particularly emotional experience with the Blessed Sacrament. Teens at Our Lady of Light have an amazingly supportive and welcoming culture.

It has been a blessing and privilege to work with our family's youth this summer. This internship has been a very formative experience. As I head back to Marian University for my sophomore year, I would appreciate it if you could keep me in your prayers.

Thank you for a wonderful summer!

In honor of today's Memorial of Saints Martha, Mary and Lazarus, we are bringing back a classic article written by our Human Resources Manager, Debbie Field. Are you a Martha or a Mary? Let's find out!

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​Me? Yea, I tend to lean “Martha”.  Is that a good thing or a bad thing?  Well, let’s see.

I suppose the story of Mary and Martha is ultimately all about priorities.  Were the tasks for the day just as important or more important than focusing on our Lord?  Or was there room for both?

The Need for Both

We need do-ers in our lives like Martha.  And we also need Marys who focus on what our Lord wants from us and spending time in His presence.  It doesn’t hurt to be a little of both, but leaning more toward the Mary side is what Jesus impresses upon us in his gospel.  Jesus’ word should be our first priority while ensuring the tasks of the day come second.  It is likely all of us have both of the qualities we see in Mary and Martha.  However, when we focus the attention on Our Lord which He  deserves, we then tend to share that focus with others in service of our family, fellow parishioners, and those in our community.

How Do You Learn?

So, leaning Mary or leaning Martha is something we should all examine in ourselves.  Clearly being a “Mary” is a different/closer relationship with Jesus and understanding what he wants of us.  Our daily lives reflect the busy nature of our jobs, taking our children to soccer, daycare, basketball practice, etc.  And all of us will assess where to draw that bright line of too much or just enough.  However, it is incumbent that all people of God understand proportion and priorities.  This story of Mary and Martha brings into focus where those priorities belong.  Jesus worked hard to spread the news of eternal life through His ministry.  So, working hard is not a bad thing.  It’s when we allow that hard work to get in the way of understanding what we can learn from our Lord which may make us a “Martha”.

Being a “Martha” doesn’t mean you don’t have “Mary” in your heart.  Martha’s hard work clearly didn’t mean she didn’t love Jesus.  She clearly did; however, her focus was more logistical and hospitality-like.  She was one to serve in an effort to ensure her household was run properly and efficiently.  Martha allowed the distractions of her desire to make everything perfect for Jesus, get in the way of what was truly important.

To Martha's Surprise...
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Upon Jesus’ arrival, He made sure He conveyed there were other priorities which He wanted Martha to focus on.  It’s likely Martha was not in her comfort zone hearing this.  Afterall, she was one to take care and ensure all were treated generously and that all preparations had been made for Jesus or any guest who visited her home.  To have Jesus admonish her or remind her of the need to be “Mary-like” was probably quite surprising to her.

Do you let your day’s activities sway the attention from our Lord?  Focusing some time each day on peace and quiet allows us to set aside the chaos and craziness we all experience in our days and re-direct our focus to the One who loves us, Jesus.

Yes, You Can

But can we be both Mary and Martha at the same time?  Now, there is a question.  Perhaps through our parish ministries, which elicit the time of so many of us, we can focus on what our Lord wants of us.  Both devotion to the ministry and its goals, as well as the hard work it takes in some cases, is a way to be a little bit of Mary and a little bit of Martha, and still be what Jesus wants of us.

Many Become One

As we, within the Archdiocese of Cincinnati, begin our second year of transitioning our parishes into families of parishes, transition is also a Martha/Mary story.  Should we focus on the planning, the merging of staffs, the mass time changes, the ministry similarities, or the new pastor changes?  Or should we look toward the future when the parishes will be one family and share in the love of Christ together.  Jesus is not worried about the “how” we get there, but about the “what” our family will look like once we have arrived.  It is up to all of us to be “Mary-like” for that goal to be achieved.

We are multiple families becoming one and regardless of what we may have lost, or the grief we are experiencing in the loss of a beloved priest, our traditional mass times, a long-held parish identity, or perhaps the structural church itself to another, it is up to each one of us to listen to Jesus as he guides us to be one family.

​Please Pray for Us

So, must I change from being a “Martha” to a “Mary” to be all Jesus wants me to be?  Perhaps.  Or can I ensure my heart is “Mary-like” and my hands “Martha-like”? As a member of an Archdiocese of Cincinnati parish, I ask for your prayers that all of us who are transitioning be blessed with the strength Jesus grants us to accept the things we find difficult to accept and grateful for the opportunity to join with others of another parish as we become one family.  This is for each of us to pray on as we examine how we experience the presence of Jesus.
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Martha or Mary? Jesus loved them both. And regardless which you feel you are more like, He loves you!!

Written by Mary Ward

Is it any surprise that God refers to Himself as the Father? 

While our human minds and hearts cannot fully comprehend God’s beautiful, pure, unconditional love, He gave us a glimpse of it in our earthly relationships, especially that of being a mother or father.

Being a parent is one of the great joys in life!  We love our kids unconditionally!

And being a grandparent…is icing on the cake! Wow! What great gifts grandchildren are!  How blessed we are to be grandparents!

This weekend we celebrate the Feast Day of Saints Anne and Joachim, patron saints of grandparents.  We don’t know much about the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary, grandparents of Jesus, but we do know that they were faithful to God.  They were promised a child by an angel.  They were blessed so much by having Mary as their daughter!

I wonder at the pure bliss of raising a young woman so holy and so favored by God.

Can you even imagine what joy they experienced when their daughter was chosen to be the mother of our Lord and Savior, Jesus?!? 

As Mary pondered in her heart the words of the Angel Gabriel, was she able to share with her mother, Anne?  We know she went to visit her cousin Elizabeth, the mother of John the Baptist, but we don’t know about her mom and dad.

Were Saints Anne and Joachim involved in the life of Jesus as he was growing up?

I wonder what a delight He was to them.  I wonder if they saw His light, His perfection.

I wonder if they had any idea that their grandson would truly be the Son of God and the Savior of the world.

I wonder if we, too, can rejoice in being grandparents of those whom God has chosen for a special purpose on this earth.  I pray that we are good examples for our children and grandchildren.

On the Feast Day of Saints Anne and Joachim, let’s remember God’s perfect love as we hope and pray for the fruition of God’s perfect plan in the lives of our grandchildren.

On July 21, a bus filled to the brim with over 50 parishioners from Our Lady of Light Family of Parishes joined 50,000+ people in Indianapolis to be revived in their love for the Holy Eucharist. While it was clear that this event would be impactful, there was no way to prepare oneself to how deeply just one day surrounded by their Church family would change their hearts and lives.

Apart from our busload of parishioners, a large number of parishioners travelled to the Eucharistic Congress for the weeklong experience. We also had a handful of younger parishioners who traveled either with their families for the weeklong conference or on the bus trip with parents. Some of these younger parishioners, who are considering a religious vocation, found the experience to only grow that urge to follow Christ in a special way.

The Congress was fully prepared to accommodate Catholics of all ages and stages, as there was a family track young families could register for that encouraged them to seek their faith even in the busiest times of life.

"I was shocked at the number of young families in attendance," Sarah Chivers, Digital Communication Specialist said. "Families with 4+ kids, families with multiple kids still in strollers. The sweetest little boy that was coloring a picture of a monstrance during Jonathan Roumie's talk. I was talking to a woman from the Trenton area at one point and she said that there was no way that this event wouldn't make a lasting impact on these children's lives. I was in complete agreement."

The Eucharistic Congress cemented the beauty of a universal Church. Ruth Reeve and her daughter experienced the joy of this larger community as they waiting for the Eucharistic Procession to begin. Shortly after finding spots on the curb to witness this miles-long procession, a woman approached them to join their group in saying the rosary across both sides of the street.

"I wasn't sure how it would work -- but it did. Fortunately, her friend had a very strong voice and pretty soon everyone on both sides of the street were praying along. But not only that - there were people walking the procession route,  and every single one of them would start praying along with us while they were walking past our section of the route. It made me realize how truly universal our faith is; we are connected in so many ways. Through our prayers, through the mass, and most especially through the Eucharist. We sing the same songs, we pray the same prayers, we recognize and honor our professed religious brothers, sisters and priests, and we acknowledge Jesus as Lord and Savior, truly present, Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity, in the Eucharist. The Eucharistic Procession gave me the opportunity to witness all of those things in one place and time and the word 'catholic' became crystal clear to me through that experience."

Those who witnessed Eucharistic Adoration throughout the Congress expressed how impactful it was. Parishioner Phil Mraz was one in attendance among thousands of people falling to their knees before the Blessed Sacrament.

"Though high up in the second level of stadium seats, I caught a whiff of the incense after the long procession had passed by. How remarkable and powerful to be in silent communion (pun intended) praying with thousands of Catholics adoring the Most Holy Sacrament."

While many of these more reverent experiences rang out as highlights of the Congress, there were many lighthearted moments that reminded us of the pure humanity that makes up the Catholic Church. Laughter and the arts played a major part of the weeklong event celebrating our Lord.

One speaker that stuck out amongst others was Sr. Josephine Garrett. 

"After viewing several of her online videos, I really wanted to hear Sr. Josephine speak in person," Phil Mraz explained, "What a joy it was to see and hear her!  A person walking by the outside of the conference room might have mistook it for a comedy club rather than a religious presentation.  Her humorous anecdotes about a nun's life had everyone laughing.  But then she got serious without warning and provided numerous insights into the spiritual, physical, and mental healing power that the Eucharist has to offer.  What a thrill it was to meet her in person after the presentation to thank her for inspired and hopeful message."

As mentioned previously, the arts rounded out the weekend by orchestrating the emotional pull of our faith. The music throughout the weekend found the perfect balance of prayerful reflection and powerful ballads of love and glory for our Heavenly Father. From the established Matt Maher to newer artists like Sarah Kroger (who will be joining us at our Parish Picnic in August), Catholic artists set the stage to bring us into the moment fully.

"The music was wonderful!" Linda Shea reminisced, "To hear that many people singing hymns of praise to our Lord was so uplifting."

Sarah Chivers, who spent the day recording the event for those who were back home, took the back seat for many events to simply take it in. 

"The music would begin playing and arms shot up in praise," she recalled. "It was overwhelming. People were smiling, people were crying. But in the best ways. The power of the Eucharist had such an emotional pull over all of us."

The music and overall event were so powerful that they have inspired minister leaders on our campuses.

"I have been ignited with a evangelistic motivation now to share the Truth with people in my every day life as well as my music ministry and also through the Cursillo Movement," said Alex Abuyuan, who plays guitar at the 11:30am Mass at the Incarnation Campus.

Our parishioners who traveled on the Our Lady of Light bus were lucky to witness Jonathan Roumie, the actor who portrays Jesus on the acclaimed series The Chosen, speak at the final session before boarding the bus back home. At the end of his talk, he performed a dramatic reading of scripture that multiple parishioners mention gave them goosebumps. 

After coming home, parishioners had an opportunity to share their thoughts overall to share with you. Here are just a couple of quotes that express how closely they encountered Christ during the Eucharistic Congress:

"It was AMAZING!  So wonderful to share our love of the Lord, the Eucharist, & our Blessed Mother with 54,000 friends!! The sessions were inspiring & energizing.  I returned renewed & grateful for having the opportunity to attend." -Cheri Rotterman

"The Eucharistic Congress was truly life-changing. It’s humbling and surreal to have gotten to be a part of history! From the speakers to the liturgies to the music to the procession, everything was fabulous! Over 60,000 hearts of those in attendance were touched, as well as so many others we will touch as we all go out and spread the amazing news of the Eucharist! I’m so thankful Blake and I could attend. We are so excited about the next National Eucharistic Congress in 2033!!" -Beth Rinderle

"This was my first Catholic 'revival' and way out of my comfort zone.  I'm so glad that I took the leap of faith and went.  I wasn't very familiar with all the songs and the presentation speakers, but every single event was uplifting and inspiring.  How can you not be inspired when surrounded by tens of thousands of faith-filled Catholics!?!  Honestly, I'm still struggling a bit with what this all means to me and how it will change my life, but I am committed to praying about it further and sharing my experience with others.  See you in the Eucharist!" -Phil Mraz

"As we boarded the bus taking us to Indianapolis, my prayer was to ask Our Lord to make my day what He wanted for me. Well I could never imagine what He had in store for me. Words cannot describe how seeing over 50,000 pray together shaped my vision of how blessed I am to be Catholic." -Mary Gutman 

"It was one of the most incredible experiences of our lives.  To be worshipping the Eucharistic Jesus at Adoration with 50,000 to 60,000 people.  It was truly life changing or more specifically it was transforming." -Alex Abuyuan

Written by Sarah Chivers

Somehow we find ourselves nearing the middle of July already, though it feels like just yesterday I stood with others on the parish staff to wave our Incarnation School students off into summer. 

While the Incarnation Campus can feel eerily quiet without the sounds of students playing on the playground throughout the day, I can't help but still feel the busyness of summer. Staff members are at various summer camps with our middle and high school students across the country, others are at conferences and conventions, and still others are working hard in the office to prepare for the upcoming year. We have new major programs rolling out this year like the Rescue Project series, new events like our Parish Picnic and exciting opportunities for parishioners approaching quickly, such as a one-day bus trip to the Eucharistic Congress. 

It is exciting to be a part of a church staff that has so much in store for its parishioners. As a member of the team who has only been here for six months, I'm always inspired and amazed at how thoughtfully our staff considers its decisions and plans to ensure that all members of our community are accounted for and welcome. It is our mission to walk with others in their everyday life to bring them closer to God, and to do that requires a lot of time and energy.

Our work (God's work) is so rewarding; we are always looking for the next way we can help make Heaven more present around us. Sometimes I am so eager for the next thing that it feels like there is no time to rest (in truth, sometimes I don't want to rest!). But as July catches up to me and I find my calendar filled to the brim, I remember that God's work is sometimes found in the resting times. God is so often found in the quiet. 

With all of the summer traveling and holidays coming up, it's easy to find yourself overwhelmed. Things to do, an itemized list of things to buy and prepare, hours on the road away from home... If you find any time to yourself amongst the travel and yard work and events, it's easy to just crash and turn on your favorite show or scroll on your phone. It's comfortable to just zone out when we're overwhelmed. 

But the true comfort is found when we remember to prioritize time with God. As the Digital Communication Specialist for our family of parishes, I find it my responsibility to mention every now and then that we need to put our phones down and just be in the quiet with Him. I try to mention that every now and then on our social media - try this new prayer, seek God in these moments, stop the scroll and say hi to God. He is our source of peace amongst the noise.

This can often be easier said than done. As a mother of toddlers and a full-time worker, I find myself spending my ride home going through the list of things that need to get done that evening: cook dinner, eat dinner, unload, reload, do a load of laundry, bath time... but also... make enough time to read a few stories with the girls before bed, and also you need to clean the bathrooms at some point or maybe finally vacuum but also take care of your nightly routine and find time to talk with your husband about the day then also read the next chapter of your book that you've been dying to get to since you set it down the night before with a massive cliffhanger... 

But I forget to schedule time for prayer. 

And I'm exhausted.

And I forget to prioritize what I can't see. 

Even if that thing I cannot see is the only thing that needs to happen that day.

As we prepare for the upcoming school year, I want to challenge you to find new ways to prioritize your relationship with God. Place your Bible in front of your bedroom door so you can't open the door without moving it first if you need to. Wake up just fifteen minutes earlier and start your day with His Word. Put it at the start of your day so that the overwhelming list of things to do isn't in your way yet. God comes first. When He comes first, everything else falls into place. 

And know that I am right there with you, walking alongside you as we seek a deeper relationship with our God who loves us so much. Sometimes we fall away, sometimes we fail. But as Fr. Brian mentioned in his homily this past weekend, God doesn't say "My grace is enough if you are sinless within the next five weeks." He knows we're human, He knows our shortcomings and frankly knows us better than we know ourselves. But He always loves us and will always be waiting for us to return to Him. 

Find peace in Him in the busyness. He is the source of all we are looking for in earthly things.